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Our Home Building Nightmare

This post has been a long time coming. WE ARE FINALLY BUILDING OUR FIRST HOME! If you are a long time follower, you’ve heard me talk about it here and there and then it would go silent, be brought up again, and disappear. But after SO MANY hiccups along the way (it’s literally been a 3+ year process since we started our plans) everything is finally moving along so well!

Through this whole process I have learned so so much! We’ve made a lot of dumb mistakes, got burned by people, realized stuff cost a lot more than we thought, realized the process was a lot longer, had arguments between me and Cody over what we want, and so on and so on!  I wanted to share some of things we’ve learned so if you’re building you hopefully don’t go through the same headache we did!

This post is going to turn into a novel, but I wanted to share the WHOLE story. We’ve been through three builders and years trying to make this happen, so it’s a lot to share.

I’ll start with the lot. We drove by this lot every day for months and fell in love with the view! It was our dream lot, but it was never up for sale, until one random day we noticed a FOR SALE sign. We called and it was out of our price range so we set big goals for work, and hoped it wouldn’t sell before then. When the time came that we were able to get the lot it was still for sale!! The owner told us he had lots of developers reach out to buy it but he wanted to sell it to a family and was so excited for it to be our first home. We closed on the lot right around Christmas of 2014.

BUILDER ONE. Our first builder was super nice and had been referred by a friend, but during the very beginning stages of getting things approved, someone in his family got terminally ill. We had been on the fence about actually building the home because we found a lot we really liked by my sister-in-law (who we hang out with every weekend) and thought maybe it was a sign to sell our old one and build by her. So we held off, put our old lot up for sale, put an offer in on the lot next to Cody’s sister, and thought it was a done deal. When we did our due diligence on the new lot we found it had been used as a dump site years ago for old refrigerators and appliances so we were worried about that, and also found out there was no way to make our current house plans feasibly fit on the new lot without going back to square one, which means thousands of dollars down the drain for the plans we had already perfected. So we pulled our offer and decided to find a new builder and build on our original lot.

BUILDER TWO: Honestly, I can’t even remember how we found these guys but this is where things really went wrong. The one thing I will say they did do right is help us make some adjustments to the house plans to utilize some of the space for things we would use more, like taking out the office downstairs and turning it into a bedroom and making a bigger closet for my office upstairs since I work so much from home. The major things that went wrong were the timeline and the budget (they went over our budget by 40+%). I understand that sometimes things cost more but they never brought these increased prices to us they would just send us bills for the overages. We broke ground on our home on Beckam’s birthday last year, March 16th, 2017, and then months and months went by and it seemed like next to nothing was being done.

September rolled around (six months later) and they hadn’t even finished pouring the foundation, which in my opinion is ridiculous. Over and over again we were promised it would be done the next week and it didn’t happen. Because we were new to building, I didn’t know if this was typical because everyone says it will take longer than you plan. I kept calling friends who had built and they said it didn’t seem right so we finally started reaching out to new builders because prices were continually going up and it felt like nothing was being done. Other houses around us started going up that broke ground months after us and they were already framing! I will go into more details about some of the major issues in my Q&A post, but the biggest thing was I didn’t feel like I could trust our builders, and because you spend so much time and money with these people I think trust is one of the biggest things you need to have with whoever you pick.

*If you are building in Salt Lake or Davis County, you can privately email or dm me and I will tell you the name of the builders because I WOULD NEVER SUGGEST THEM TO ANYONE.

BUILDER THREE: Our current builder is Brian Hansen of , and his wife is our interior designer. I had actually found Erin through the Parade of Homes. We fell in love with the clean modern design she did for the parade home. We actually hired her first while we had our second builders. I was continually calling her about my frustrations with the constant delays and one day when I was so fed up I said WE NEED NEW BUILDERS! She told me her husband was a builder and hadn’t mentioned it before because she didn’t want me to feel like she was just suggesting him because they were married. We met with them and you could just sense the honesty and passion they had for their job! Brian took everything over and has literally been a dream to work with. He’s helped us readjust things to get us back to a realistic budget, been on time consistently ( I can’t tell you how much this means after having almost nothing be on time with our previous builders), he has called me with ways to SAVE money where he sees it – another huge thing we never had happen before. He’s been so honest and realistic about things, it has made these last couple months so much easier to build and actually got me EXCITED about the house again. (I’m not sponsored to say this in any way, I say this all because after how much money, time, and headache we lost over our second builder I would NEVER want someone to go through the same thing.) I can’t tell you how many times Cody and I said, “Is this even worth it?” while working with the second builders – it was a true true nightmare. I am so so thankful we found Brian and Erin. I think I appreciate it on a different level because I saw how wrong building can really go!

So now things are rolling!!! We are expected to be in July this year!

December 20th: The first wall goes up! It’s a tiny little wall but it was OUR FIRST WALL!!

January 2nd: Framing the basement! Almost all the basement was framed!

They just finished the flooring and are framing the main level now but I have to save some pics for the next post 🙂

So I wrote wayyyy more than I planned to, so I am going to break up the Q&A into the next post and talk more about how to pick a builder, questions to ask them, and so on. If you have specific questions about our home or building process leave them in comments below I’m going to answer those in the next post too. I am so so excited to share this process with you guys!

XX, Christine



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  1. Ewa Macherowska

    Wow! Beautiful place! x

  2. Jessica

    I hope everything turns out beautifully in the end! It looks like it’s headed that way!

  3. La Bijoux Bella | by mia

    This is very exciting. Building a new home always brings an excitement so fulfilling, besides all the headaches and stress. Stay strong and head on, it’ll be over soon. You’ll have your beautiful home to enjoy! ♥️👍🏼♥️

  4. Jess

    So glad things are finally going smoothly and looks like your builder and interior designer do incredible work! Thanks for sharing your experiences and hope the rest of the process goes smoothly.

  5. Melody Valene

    Very hard to have to deal with everybody and the weather as well but knowing that this house is your vision and no one else has leaved in it is amazing! Can’t wait to see the final result. Xo Melody

  6. fatou

    congratulation on your house! IT WILL LOOK BEAUTIFUL!
    XX

  7. Rosemary

    I appreciate this so much. I will definitely be reading your Q&A because I want to build in Utah. That is so frustrating.

  8. Baryssa

    The view you’re going to have looks AMAZING!! Loved that sharing of your story. & so happy your new builder is working out. Can I ask by chance how big the house is & the layout?

  9. Kayleejoy

    So exciting!! And what an amazing view. So glad you finally landed with a builder you can trust! I hate hiring people for things I have absolutely no experience with, I never know if I’m being taken advantage of or not. Such a good feeling when you realize you’ve got someone hard working and honest.

  10. JessIca S

    Thank you for this post, Christine! We bought 4 acres this past year are we are breaking ground NEXT WEEK!! It is incredibly overwhelming building a home. Thank your for being open and honest about this stressful process. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies! I can’t wait to read your Q&A!

  11. Jackie

    I am SO grateful you are taking the time to share this story! My husband just sold his house in Logan and we are now living in Bountiful. We are trying to find a new place to live and aren’t sure if we want to build or buy. The whole process regardless of building or buying is terrifying. I have no idea who to trust. I’m from California so I don’t even know what rumors there are for the areas in which to look. I can’t wait to read more.

  12. Beth Shankle Anderson

    Congratulations! I’m happy for you that things are finally coming together and your new home will soon be built. I can’t wait to see it!
    Beth ||

  13. Heidi

    What an awful and scary experience! So happy to hear it’s worked out and can’t wait to see the end result!

    Heidi || Wishes & Reality

  14. Elizabeth

    Aww I’m glad that things are finally getting done right! Can’t wait for you all to move in!

  15. Michelle Johnson

    So sorry you had to go through all that! My fiancee and I are planning on building a new home too but not for a few more years. I am definiitely interested in these types of posts. Can’t wait for the Q&A!

  16. Tabitha

    Oh man! I feel your frustration in terms of building houses. My family went through building 3 houses, and each time we had to live in a tiny RV camper. Nothing like having no bedrooms for four people lol! The location you picked for your house is beautiful and that view is amazing. I can’t wait to hear more!

    Tabitha

  17. chelsea

    oh girl I feel your pain! We bought land in 2015 and decided to build it ourselves with no experience. We got screwed over by so many trades despite having a lot of industry connections (I’m a property manager for a developer) and we only just moved in this past November… so 2.5 years later. There were so many headaches and fights along the way, and we did all of the interior design ourselves too just to add more stress/fun! I will say though that we are thrilled with the finished product and are very proud of ourselves. If you ever want tips or a house tour feel free to follow me on ig: chelseastvirji. Good luck through the rest of the journey! You will love it when you move in, especially with that incredible view!

  18. Jae

    such an exciting period for you and your family! hope all goes well with the home building process.

  19. Abbie

    So excited for you guys, looks like an amazing view!

  20. Rosalinda

    Congratulations!! Thank you for sharing I am definitely looking forward to Q&A.

  21. Vaishali

    Such a journey. But things that value most, sometimes we have to struggle alot for same. It is going to be beautiful.
    Vaishali

  22. Emily

    I’m just came across your blog today & I love it! My husband & I built a home 2.5 years ago & I have a sincere sympathy for anyone whose been through the process as well as a serious obsession with seeing people’s finished products! (So much of your time, money, & focus are put into a home!) my heart went out to you with your struggles in building so far but sounds like you’re in good hands now. Best of luck with this adventure & anxious to hear & see how your dream home turns out!

  23. Arianna

    I love this and I have shared something similar but I love seeing other peoples style, inspo, advice! Thanks for sharing. xo Arianna

  24. Courtney

    Wow this sounds crazy! But I’m glad things are rolling now!
    xx
    Courtney ||

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